Blog Perfection
Emor
Beginning with Leviticus 21:16, the Parsha Emor states that individuals with physical defects cannot serve God or the community through food provision or service.
I recently discovered that in the 1800s, many states in America enacted “ugly laws,” making it illegal for people with disabilities to be seen in public. These laws remained in effect until 1974.
Who among us is truly physically perfect? One leg may be shorter than the other, or our eyes might not align perfectly. As we age, our bodies become less than perfect; eyesight dims, walking becomes uncertain as arthritis sets in, and health challenges arise, leading to surgeries and losses.
From the moment we are born, we encounter emotional traumas—both small "t" traumas and significant ones. A caregiver may not always respond when we need them, affecting our ability to form secure attachments. Sadly, many experience physical or sexual assault, often overlooked in discussions about trauma. The sudden loss of a beloved grandparent or pet can unleash grief that lingers long after the event. Over time, sadness and anxiety can become our new normal.
Is it physical and emotional perfection that God desires from us, or is it a quest for spiritual perfection? How do we heal from our imperfect wounds?
When we encounter someone with a disability, we might stare, perceiving them as different or strange. However, my experiences working with individuals with disabilities have shown me the depth of their humanity. One man, confined to an electric wheelchair due to multiple sclerosis, was particularly inspiring. Despite his slurred speech, his brilliance and humor shone through. He made the daily journey from the southern part of town to participate in daily prayer services and work for the city. It was clear that he was meant to serve the Holy One.
As we engage in the counting of the Omer, we are currently in the week of "Hod," or splendor. Let us take this time to recognize and appreciate the splendor in our world, including the diverse individuals who may differ from us.
